It's... honestly better that you don't. Most people don't really like to have their privacy invaded like that. Besides, I think that learning how to figure these things out is part of growing up.
[But ahem, back to the point.]
Anyways. I can't speak for everyone, but it's probably because it makes them feel sad that you don't value yourself the same way they do.
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Sorry, it's pretty hard to wrap my head around this. I guess I should be glad you aren't hurt by it, but... maybe I'll put this another way.
Do you get why people don't like to hear you put yourself down?
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[But ahem, back to the point.]
Anyways. I can't speak for everyone, but it's probably because it makes them feel sad that you don't value yourself the same way they do.
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[That's. That's not the point of any of this, Yoshi.]
Sad, huh? I know what that means logically, but I just can't imagine it.